We are both My wife works for an insurance company and I am an accountant. We have a good lifestyle with two new cars and a nice home. We get on well and enjoy a couple of long-haul holidays every year. My wife has a corporate gym membership and she goes there two or three times a week.

This week's Love, Actually interview, exploring the reality of women's sex lives, is with Kelly a pseudonym , who's been married for 7 years to a man 15 years older than her. They have three children under age five, and she's having an affair with an ex-boyfriend. I'm 30, and my husband is 15 years older than me. We met when he was a graduate student teaching an undergrad class that I was taking in my last year of college. Nobody my age had their s--t together; most guys my age were just partying all weekend. He wanted to settle down and start a family. In the last six months, I've started having an affair with an ex-boyfriend.

My partner of five months says she enjoys sex with me more than she did with her previous partner. I can fully understand why this news was difficult to hear and continues to worry you. Sometimes people say things that are designed to hurt or exert power over another, and it may be that in the moment she said it, she was feeling a little insecure.

The third is a rich hustler who has about 10 other lovers of his own. In other words, am I flush? Last year I had a cancerous spot on my back and she fled until I got the all clear.